That 1 thing
Saturday, November 29th, 2008Recently I was invited to participate in a dialogue with students at my Alma Mater, Howard University. I have never used that term, Alma Mater, before now, I guess because it means nourishing mother in latin and it seemed like an overstatement to refer your college as your mother. Anyhow, I digress.
So at the end of a very rewarding conversation, one of the students asked me this question, “At this point in your career, What is the one thing that you would say to someone like me, who is aspiring for great success in life.” I thought for a moment and said this…”The one thing that I think is most important, that I continue to struggle with even until this day, is getting yourself to perform at higher and higher levels when nothing in your environment compels you to do so.” I went on to explain that in many cases we are surrounded by mediocrity and low expectations. Also, many of us are plagued by lethargy and poor habits. When you are in this situation, then you have to hold yourself to a standard and performance level that no one around you expects. 
And to make matters worse, sometimes people will even speak against your aspirations and goals, or attempt to undermine you, or break your confidence in yourself. When it all these forces comes together, the internal resistance and the external resistance it, becomes tough to succeeed. This is the challenge that never goes away. This is what buries most aspirations and dreams. And for most there is no easy way out.
So how do you get yourself to do what it takes to succeed? To read that book. To wake up on time. To work a little longer. To be more sociable. To try harder.
Or to do what ever is necessary for you to grow and evolve toward your ideal. You have to……..Check the next blog posting.
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